Can I stop workplace bullying & avoid being a target? Learn the effectiveness of 9 existing strategies, plus more.
When talking about
workplace bullying, research
reports that most people generally attempt two or three of the following
measures. Some try to ignore it until it’s becomes critical and affects their
work performance and/or health, and then report the matter to their OHS
representative or HR area as a workplace behaviour in breach of the
organisation’s respective OHS or anti-bullying/harassment policies.
Depending
on the target’s confidence levels, they may consider taking the matter to the
bully’s boss, or asking HR to intervene on their behalf or through senior
management. If they are a member, people sometimes seek assistance from their
union.
Research has found that a staggering 95% of targets are unlikely to obtain a
workable resolution to the bullying using these strategies.
Note: Read how to take back your personal power and control in ‘5 steps to take back your control during workplace confrontations.’ or ‘6 risk management strategies to interrupt negative workplace behaviours.’ and ‘6 tactics to stay sane despite working in a toxic workplace.’ Subscribe to my website and get my free eBook, ’20 killer tactics to staying sane in toxic workplaces.’
If you’re wondering why you’re consistently accepting positions or roles within unhappy workplaces that manifest negative online and offline behaviours, then read ‘Why some workplaces just don’t work for you.’
**If you’re an OHS or HR manager searching for simple steps to assess your organisation’s culture, read my article ‘Why organisational culture is a Game Changer for workplace engagement’ or contact me at team@DrFlis.com for a free organisational culture assessment.
Am I accidentally triggering the bullying behaviour?
Most targets immediately
assume it’s their fault, that they did something to precipitate the behaviour. One
of the most powerful realisations is to know that you (the target) are not the
problem – the problem is the perpetrator and the organisation’s culture that
enables the behaviour.
To put workplace
bullying into context, you need to know that it is quite possible you may be
triggering the workplace bullying.
Why?
I’m sorry to have to
tell you but you may have one or more of the following attributes.
You are probably independent
and may not be subservient to the perpetrator’s conscious or unconscious need to
be seen and treated as special.
You probably technically ‘out-skill’ the
bully and consistently demonstrate greater emotional intelligence and social
skills. You are generally liked and/or respected by staff, colleagues and
bosses. You may also exhibit the attributes of honesty and ethical behaviour, both
of which threaten the bully, particularly if you work in an entitlement-based
organisation that allows certain people to misuse their position to access favours
(sexual or otherwise).
Highly ethical people
are also more likely to be whistleblowers,
as they view fraudulent work practices are offensive. Unfortunately, if you are
a whistleblower you are more likely to be bullied either by the perpetrator or
their organisation.
Interestingly, if you’re female then you may be at a higher risk of being
bullied, by other women. According to a 2010
Survey by the Workplace Bullying Institute, of the 35% of workers who
reported observing or suffering workplace bullying, 58% of the targets were
women. Women were also found to be 80%
more likely to bully other women.
What does bullying look like at work?
- False accusations and rumours
- Glares, put-downs, insults, harsh criticism,
shouting
- Intimidating non-verbal behavior, exclusion
and ‘the cold shoulder’ treatment
- Put-downs, insults, excessive harsh criticism.
- Unreasonable heavy work demands and
micro-managing behaviours
- Sabotage that prevents work from getting done
- Stealing credit for your work
So, I suppose you’re now wondering what you can do to stop the bullying?
Nine Existing Methods to Stop Workplace Bullying, and their Effectiveness
The Workplace
Bullying Institute reports nine strategies traditionally used to stop
workplace bullying. I have listed these in ranking of their effectiveness, and
you can read the WBI’s full report here.
1. Ignore the behaviour
| This strategy is 3.25% effective.
2. Directly confronted
the perpetrator | This strategy is 3.57% effective.
3. Requested
boss/supervisor’s assistance to intervene | This strategy is 3.26% effective.
4. Requested intervention
from senior management | Effectiveness | This strategy is 3.69% effective.
5. Requested union
intervention | This strategy is 8.84% effective.
6. Raising an official
complaint to HR regarding a violation of the bullying & harassment policy |
This strategy is 4.7% effective.
7. Filing a complaint
with an external agency, such as WorkSafety or Fair Work Commission |
11.9% effective
11.9% effective
8. Seeking private
legal counsel with the view of filing lawsuit | 11.2% effective
9. Outcome of a
bullying and harassment lawsuit | 16.4% effective
My view is that the
only really effective way of preventing and intervening negative workplace behaviours
is by taking back your personal power and control at work.
Dr Flis' methods to re-empower yourself and taking back YOUR personal control and power at work
Read how to take back
your personal power and control in my articles ‘5
steps to take back your control during workplace confrontations.’ or ‘6
risk management strategies to interrupt negative workplace behaviours.’ and ‘6
tactics to stay sane despite working in a toxic workplace.’
Or subscribe to my website
and get my free eBook, ’20 killer tactics to staying sane in toxic workplaces.’
If you’re wondering why
you’re consistently accepting positions or roles within unhappy workplaces that display negative online and offline behaviours, then read my
article ‘Why
some workplaces just don’t work for you.’
If you’re an OHS or HR
manager and looking for some simple steps to assess your organisation’s
culture, read my article ‘Why
organisational culture is a Game Changer for workplace engagement’
Next week I’ll be
writing about how to tell if you’re accidentally enabling workplace bullying in
your area, either as a co-worker, manager or employer. In week five I’ll be
writing about a new strategy to stop workplace bullying, one that I’ve
developed with the help of UK, US and Canadian researchers.
Dr Flis has a BA SSc and a PhD in
organisational social psychology and works with individuals and organisations
as a consultant, speaker and trainer. She uses her social science expertise to
enhance interactions between organisations and the people who lead and work in
them by fostering new insights for diagnosing organisational problems, and
build new capabilities and culture.
Contact Dr Flis at DrFlisLawrence@gmail.com, LinkedIn or follow Flis on her blog Twitter or Facebook.
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